This year I have some changes that I need to make. Sometimes we put ourselves down and feel like we have no confidence. This is normal! It is just what us girls go through when we are growing up. But there are times that it can get the better of us. When we compare ourselves to other girls or spend more time worrying about how we look, rather than having fun, that is when there is a problem. I for sure need to make some changes this year and be the best version of myself. There is only one of you in the world and that is why you are so unbelievably special, beautiful and valuable.
There are certain things that I feel every girl should do every single day, just to remind yourself how amazing you are.
Look in the mirror and be like "Hello! Who is that hottie?!"
Text your loved ones and let them know how much they mean to you, even if it is just a simple, "I love you."
Fill your day with things you enjoy. Yes we do need to get some boring stuff done and get work out of the way, but why does that mean we can't have fun in the process?
Reward and treat yourself, Even if that is just a long hot bath in the evening, that valuable "me time" is sometimes all we need for a clear head.
Don't let ANYONE, EVER put you down. Anyone who does that to another person is just proving why you are so much more amazing.
Love yourself, Flaws and all. Those little quirks that might embarrass you, are the things that other people love.
Know that you are capable of being anything that you want to be.
Be determined and ambitious. Hard work and perseverance really do pay off. If you want something, you can get it, you will just have to put in the time and effort.
Don't be jealous of anyone. There are times that I look at Beyonce and think, "I wish I had a body like that!" but then I think, "Well then I wouldn't be 6ft tall and that is kinda fun!". That person that you might envy, could envy you just as much.
Like Audrey Hepburn said, "Happy girls are the prettiest girls" and that is so true. It doesn't matter what colour hair you have, what ethnicity you are, whether you have a big or a small nose, what colour your eyes are, how tall or small you are, how slim or curvy you are. These are the just the sprinkles on the cake and the yummiest bit of the cake is the chocolatey personality filling!!!!
Love Rachael xxx